Posts Tagged ‘Diamond Reed’
Meet Bill
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IMDB rating: 6.80 Plot: A guy fed up with his job and married to a cheating wife reluctantly mentors a rebellious teen. |
Actors: Eckhart Aaron,Lerman Logan,Osborne Holmes,Louiso Todd,Olyphant Timothy,Diamond Reed,Sudeikis Jason,Zou Andy,O’Farrell Conor,Lordan John,Edlund Rick,Hawksley Craig,Thomas Matt,O’Neal Granvile,Bowdorn Michael,Comedy,Drama,
Staying married for the kids?
My husband and I aren’t happy, but we stay together to maintain the kids lives. I’ve been told so many times that it’s not good to do that, but how is this worse than divorce, financial struggles, and no parent at all. I am miserable here, but if I leave, I will have full responsibility for the kids. Currently, I work PT and home school my 6 yr old, and care for my 4 and 8 month old at home. If I left, my husband has made it clear that he would leave his current job and get a little job that makes peanuts so he doesn’t have to pay me much. I believe him because that’s what his brother did. Because I don’t have any marketable skills, I’d have to get at least two jobs to make ends meet. I would have to quit schooling her and put them all in daycare. So, on top of the usual costs I’d have to pay, I’d have daycare and babysitting fee’s to pay. I couldn’t depend on my husband for money. He’d have no problem going to jail. I always hear that you do what’s best for the kids. I feel like staying here and getting the bills paid and me being with them is what’s best, but I am beginning to think I’m wrong. Some say, including my Mother, that the kids will grow up thinking that this is normal and that’s bad. I’m just not sure what’s worse, the kids thinking that Mom home taking care of them is bad or Mom abandoning then to go work all day.
What are your thoughts on staying together for the kids?
wow, lunatic, that’s a powerful message.
ssanchez….my 6 yr old is home-schooled. Why do I need a FT job? Taking care of three kids is the hardest job I’ve ever had. Why would I take on more work right now? That makes no sense to me. Obviously if I left I would. The "junk" about two jobs? At best, I could make $10 an hour which wouldn’t even pay rent on a small apartment. Abandoning children by leaving them with someone other than the parents for a minimum of 10 hours a day. Yes, I don’t agree with that. I would be overridden with guilt. I know some people do it, but I just feel different. What "excuses" did I made? That’s reality. Why is a job working Mother stronger than one who takes care of the kids and the home? And lastly, you mentioned choosing another man. Why in God’s name would anyone marry again after finding out what marriage is all about?
Clearly, I offended you somehow and I’m sorry for that, but man oh man, was it really necessary to be such a jerk about it?
Your children will become what you are; so be what you want them to be.
INTERNET NICE MACHINE I | Feb 01, 2010
How is sex between u two?
Jhon J | Feb 01, 2010
Every marriage is different, like day & night.
You shouldn’t go by what others have done/haven’t done. It’s your life, your choice, and your problem.
Maybe you need counseling so you both can figure this out on your own.
Seeya | Feb 01, 2010
The divorce rate is currently down right now, and that is solely because a lot of people are in your boat. They can not afford to get a divorce. One must do what one must do. Do what you think is right.
Micah M | Feb 01, 2010
you love your kids alot, but your going to do anything you can do for them theyre hole life, and sometimes with all that you gotta stop and think about yourself and what you need or want
Zac | Feb 01, 2010
My parents stuck it out for the sake of their children.
Now, I am stuck having to deal with the knowledge that my very existence stood in the way of the happiness they would have found apart.
I went through 22 years of a loveless marriage because I thought that was normal.
Divorce is hell. Living a lie is worse. A child seeing his parents living a lie is a tragedy.
lunatic | Feb 01, 2010
I don’t know you, but it seems like you and your husband don’t even like eachother. If that is the case then I think you should leave. You will make it work. I also don’t know where you live, but I am sure there are programs for single, low income mothers.
I basically stay with my husband for my kids, but I don’t hate him. I just know there would be someone better suited for me. We still go out together, laugh with eachother, and have fun together.
If you are setting a bad example for your kids, you will know that. I understand how hard it is to leave and have nobody to depend on, but that in itself will be a good lesson for your kids. It will be really hard at first but it will work out. It will have to. You will make things ok for your kids.
Good Luck.
butterfliesbrown | Feb 01, 2010
do your research. divorce is very hard on kids and they
are more likely to get involved with drugs, gangs, and crime
when they come from divorced homes…also more likely to
have a teen pregnancy…
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