Always Outnumbered (1998) IMDB rating: 7.00 Plot: An ex-con moves to L.A. to find work and creates a disturbance by fighting for a position. More importantly he touches the lives of many of his neighbors including an older man dying of cancer, a young married couple whose husband is too proud to accept a lesser position which causes strife with his wife, and a young boy on the verge of getting in trouble with street gangs.

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Are african american women seen as beautiful?
I am 28 yrs. old, 5′1, 138 lbs. light-skinned, well endowed in the butt and breast, middle section is on lock. My worry is I don’t really look for attention because i’m married but it would be nice to know if I still got it. I see dozens of black guys checking out white girls that don’t even look as good as me. I know I’m married and shouldn’t even worry about this but my husband is a sexy, gorgeous piece of work. He’s an ex-nfl player so everybody black, white, hispanic, whatever always check him out when I’m with him. He says I am "The Finest" and I respect that but yet he also is curious about sleeping with a white girl just to see if it’ s all it’s made out to be. He says He wouldn’t want her as a wife if he wasn’t married but that’s the porn "girl" and he even came close to having sex with one on his new job but he stopped and told her he couldn’t do that to his wife. They kissed and felt on each other but he says he got out of the truck and never said anything else to her. Now, I’m happy he didn’t do it and he told me about and I’m still here because I love him. But now i’m insecure about how i look and to make matters worse, the white women here outnumber the black girls and not to mention most white women are basically ready for a black one but I want to know From the Brothas of all colors am I crazy for feeling like I can’t compete when in fact I am just as hot!
Thanks everyone for your responses! You know I did have a confidence about myself that somehow I lost but thanks to you all I will get it back. Thanks for the comment about "never know what you had until it’s gone" No I will not do a threesome because I don’t want anyone to experience the greatness that I have. (I’m a selfish girl LOL!) But when he made the mistake of almost cheating or cheating, he’s actually did a 360! He bends over backwards to please me now and he BEGGED me not to leave and I had to respect that. My husband is not the one to cry but he’s been crying like a baby lately everytime he looks me in the eye and says I LOVE YOU! So I guess I have to believe and be confident in who I am and don’t worry about the rest. Oh, to the one that said look at "porn dudes" He would literally freak if I even said another guy looked good, and don’t even get me started on guys that just want to say hi. LOL! Thanks guys you all are great!!
Here’s to a new beginning in MY LIFE!

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Well… I know this probably won’t mean much, coming from a guy who isn’t interested in girls in a sexual way. But I’ve always thought that all of the races have their own things that make them unique, and personally, I think that all races are beautiful, just in different ways.

Then again, I’m multi-racial, so I don’t know if I can speak for somebody who’s only 1 major ethnic group. But I’ve thought that many women, of all races, are beautiful.

And guys too, but I’m sure you probably don’t want to hear about that. Lol

Beyond Description | Nov 11, 2009

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Honey, you are married, so you’re lucky. Plus, I’m a gay white guy yet I’ve always seen the beauty in black women.
Vinny | Nov 11, 2009

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I’m not a guy,but I had to just say that.
It’s all about curiosity.
Some white women feel the same way that you do.
I just think some people can’t appreciate what they have until it’s gone.
?budiest? | Nov 11, 2009

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beauty isnt in the colour of a womans skin, or how she dresses, or how she looks, but its in her eyes.
If your black, white, pink or blue, it doesnt matter. Beauty in your eyes becuase thats the door to your soul.
Its natural to worry if you still have it. Go out on a night out with your girl friends, get dolled up and just have a laugh! Go flirt and have a bit of fun with still being faithful. Be confident because confident is sexy.
I think that some white woman look trashy, wheras with african american woman, they seem to have personality and a style of their own.
I think you need to talk to your husband. Does he love you as much as you love him? Im sure does, but you need to think about it if he nearly had sex with another woman. Ever considered a threesome with a white woman? The benefits being that he can have sex with a white woman without going behind your back, and you can join in too.
Good luck xxxxx
Kara J | Nov 11, 2009

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yes
your must look MARVELOUS
really
you must

smile
good luck
Frank T | Nov 11, 2009

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I’m a gay male, and honestly, for some reason I always see black girls as more beautiful than white girls (of course, this also varies with the individual), but it just always seems that black girls have the smoothest and gleaming skin and it makes them look beautiful. I wish I had skin that looked like that . And also they are so nice, and personality always shines the brightest to me. You shouldn’t worry about it, maybe guys don’t look at you because you are standing next to an ex-nfl player who would kick the crap out of them if they sneaked a peak.

And when it comes to your husband, you need to put him in check, talking about messing around with another woman, I don’t care if he is curious or not, he has already made a commitment.
lol rotf lmao | Nov 11, 2009

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you sound FINE to me. anyway, your husband probably wants to have sex EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. he’s programmed that way. don’t let his couriousity about white girls get to you. maybe you should suddenly get interested in white porn dudes????
Dana B | Nov 11, 2009

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You may be beautiful. But, you have to keep in mind that the world is full of women who are just as beautiful or even more beautiful. So, your husband will continue to see women he finds attractive. The point is that he is not acting on it. He loves you. He’s with you. That’s all that should matter.
Lynn | Nov 14, 2009

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Payback (1999) IMDB rating: 7.00 Plot: Porter is a small time but tough criminal, who’s primary gig, is robbery. Now his friend Val Resnick needs $130,000 to pay back a criminal group known as “The Outfit”. He tells Porter about some Asian couriers who carry $300,000, Porter agrees to it on the condition that they split the take. When they hit them, they discover that they only have $140,000, and Resnick says that, that’s what they always carry. He pulls out a gun and shoots Porter in the back and leaves him to die. However, Porter manages to make it to a doctor, and get treated, when he recovers, he sets out to get Resnick and his share $70,000. He begins by approaching an associate of Resnick’s. Porter then seeks out a prostitute named Rosie, whom he knew, she tells him where he can find Resnick, when he does he tells Resnick that he should go to his employers and ask them to give him back $70,000 of the money he gave them, Resnick says that’s impossible but Porter “convinces” him to do it. Resnick then goes to his boss, Mr. Carter, who tells him that it’s in their best interest to help Resnick deal with Porter. Carter orders one of his men to take Porter out but Porter’s just too good for them. Resnick then asks his girlfriend who knows the people whom he and Porter stole the money from, and tells her to tell them where they can find him. When they do they are interrupted by two policemen, but they are crooked who are under the impression that Porter’s going after $200,000-300,000 and are going to get it. Can Porter deal with all these people and still get his money.

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Why do I feel guilty for being the way that I am?
ok, i’m 26 and i’ll be 27 in 2 weeks. not much has changed for me and my friends since high school we are all roughly the same age living together and partying and random hook ups. i dont see much of a problem with that. i dont think i want kids and the idea of buying a house or finding a place to live the rest of my life scares the crap out of me. i’ve made poor choices but i’ve always been happy, some of us just aren’t cut out to be parents.

the problem is recently i’ve been thinking a lot. i’ve never had a girlfriend that i really like and care about. until this summer. i don’t usually date girls more than 5 years younger than me but this summer i took a chance on an 18 year old and me here at 26…i’m a perv i know…anyway, we worked together at a restaurant, so we were together almost 24/7. she was fun and liked to go out, she wasn’t clingy or desperate, she was kind of mean actually, she didn’t put up with any bull crap either, her parents loved me, and i would come over all the time and eat dinner with them and for the first time in my life i enjoyed being with my girlfriend and getting to know her and her family. i let my ego get in the way a lot i would be mean and distant sometimes but she was the same way a lot of the time. regardless we got a long very well.

well she left for college in August, i remember the day after she left i was going to work and i had this horrible empty feeling inside cuz i knew she wasnt gonna be there anymore. i actually missed her like crazy. i started texting her all the time and being insanely jealous of college boys mainly cuz they were closer to her age and partying with her. she got tired of me being clingy and the fact i was 120 miles away and said we should break up, she had actually met someone there. i was heartbroken for the first time ever…and it sucked but i got myself through it, laughing at myself mostly for being an idiot who thought he loved an 18 year old. BUT…she came home this weekend and we hung out, had a great time, i realized i missed having her around, and as i was saying my goodbyes these stupid tears came flowing out and i didnt even realize i was gonna cry, and i DONT cry for any reason, she asked if i was crying i started laughing and said yeah im an idiot. she just said everything would be fine but we need to do our own separate things. she said our ages weren’t the problem it was my attitude toward the situation, being jealous and not trusting her, and me being so far away.

it all hit me how much older i was than her and that maybe if i had gotten married and stayed in college when i was her age none of this would’ve happened. i do feel stupid for being in love with an 18 year old and the fact she’s totally kicking my *** here, payback i guess for being such a selfish jerk all these years, what goes around comes around i guess. i still dont care for family and that sort of thing but i usually stay in my age group. i just want all these emotions to stop, so i can go back to being a selfish aimless moron with no goals…except to finish school so im not still working at a restaurant when im 40 and also a better job would mean more money to spend, lol.

what’s wrong with me? why do i suddenly feel guilty for not having anything, when that’s what i wanted? why can’t i stop thinking about this stupid 18 year old girl? is any of this normal at all?

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I cannnot read this big story to answer.Can you please shorten up your answer PLz.
chiku | Nov 17, 2009

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You fell in love and she broke your heart. It does not "just go away" unfortunately. My friend had a very similar situation, except his gf went and got pregnant by another man because he didn’t want to settle! Your ex girlfriend is young and she likes to party too. She isn’t ready to settle down yet. There are probably a ton of guys where she goes to school. I don’t know your girlfriend, but let me tell you 18 year olds are very impressionable. While she was away, she found someone else to keep her company. Young girls tend to string guys along….especially when they know the guy truly loves them. When she goes back to school, she will probably have a new boyfriend. If you want to get over this girl, you need to stop hanging out with her when she comes back to town. Make yourself unavailable. Find other people to hang out with even if you don’t want to at first. If it was meant to be, in 5 years when she is more mature, she will still be there. Good Luck, and don’t settle for less than what you are worth.

PS. When your ready, you will want a house a family and what not…..or you may never want one. Don’t feel abnormal just because you don’t want a house with a white picket fence and 2.5 children!
IT IS WHAT IT IS!!! | Nov 17, 2009

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Nothing is wrong with you at all….You are acting very normal. You are finally maturing and realizing there is more to life than partying and working in a restaurant and you want more than that. You are for the first time looking at the future not just the present. As for the girl….regardless of her age it was your first true love and everyone gets upset when they lose their first love.
Bears Mom | Nov 17, 2009

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Well, you didn’t want a family, house, etc. That doesn’t mean you aren’t going to stumble across a girl once in a while you can fall in love with. You two are at different places in your development and it just wasn’t meant to be.

If you keep dating, you will find someone else that you like as much or more, she won’t move 120 miles away and you’ll have similar priorities.

The reason you feel this remorse is because you finally found someone whom you had a real connection with. It will happen again, just next time…don’t take it for granted – now you know how precious a chance meeting like that can be.
GerberaChic | Nov 17, 2009

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It sort of seems like the greatest reason you like this girl is that somewhere in your mind you know what you have with her is a bit wrong (I’m not saying it is, just saying that YOU might think it’s wrong), and so you want her more than you would any other girl your age. Because dating girls your age is not necessarily considered wrong, you don’t feel like you have any problems with them and so you don’t appreciate them as much. You appreciate things more when they’re harder to obtain and keep.

As for the whole life-plan thing, getting what you want all the time is not good. Think of it this way; you’re babysitting a kid and you’re chopping an apple for him to eat. The kid sees you using a knife and he wants to use it too, would you give him the knife? The most reasonable answer would be no, as the kid might hurt himself and you would have to deal with the consequences. Now, always getting what you want might make you happy for a while, but eventually all those things might come back and bite you in the butt (like you said, what goes around comes around; it’s not always the bad things that make you pay, though) because most desires turn out to be whims.

It’s perfectly normal, all this ordeal. It happens to the best of people, what makes everyone different is how we deal with things. You finally found someone you truly care about and you actually admitted it– congratulations, your mind is becoming more mature. It’s natural to be confused when you go through new things, but don’t worry, everything will work out in the end, after all, you’ve had almost 27 years of experience, you might already know what’s going to happen.
Mango | Nov 17, 2009

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You make it sound like you’re 45 and she’s 18. I think it could work out if she moved back but by the time she graduates college you both will have moved on. It sounds like she’s more focused on the future than you are, if you really want her you need to show her you are planning for the future. Retirement comes around very quick, you need to start thinking ahead.
Bibigirl | Nov 17, 2009

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Your ages sound like they are switched. She sounds 26, and you sound 18.

Logistically, it is silly to continue the relationship, and socially restricting at her age where she should be figuring things out. She knows that. Maybe when she gets out and you are 30, you can start up something again. But, sorry to say, probably not. You need to find someone your own age.

It just seems like you fell in love with the first girl that paid attention to you for more than a one night stand. That is why you cannot stop thinking about her. It is a common infection, falling in love with the first girl you really date.

This is entirely normal, the only thing not normal is how old you are compared to her.

Girls your own age are much more appealing if you ask me, but maybe you are romantically underdeveloped, which it sounds like, making her a better overall match. Either way, try to find someone else. Because, she is.
Bent Snowman | Nov 17, 2009

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