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PaybackPayback (1999)

IMDB rating: 7.00

Plot: Porter is a small time but tough criminal, who’s primary gig, is robbery. Now his friend Val Resnick needs $130,000 to pay back a criminal group known as “The Outfit”. He tells Porter about some Asian couriers who carry $300,000, Porter agrees to it on the condition that they split the take. When they hit them, they discover that they only have $140,000, and Resnick says that, that’s what they always carry. He pulls out a gun and shoots Porter in the back and leaves him to die. However, Porter manages to make it to a doctor, and get treated, when he recovers, he sets out to get Resnick and his share $70,000. He begins by approaching an associate of Resnick’s. Porter then seeks out a prostitute named Rosie, whom he knew, she tells him where he can find Resnick, when he does he tells Resnick that he should go to his employers and ask them to give him back $70,000 of the money he gave them, Resnick says that’s impossible but Porter “convinces” him to do it. Resnick then goes to his boss, Mr. Carter, who tells him that it’s in their best interest to help Resnick deal with Porter. Carter orders one of his men to take Porter out but Porter’s just too good for them. Resnick then asks his girlfriend who knows the people whom he and Porter stole the money from, and tells her to tell them where they can find him. When they do they are interrupted by two policemen, but they are crooked who are under the impression that Porter’s going after $200,000-300,000 and are going to get it. Can Porter deal with all these people and still get his money.

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Why do I feel guilty for being the way that I am?
ok, i’m 26 and i’ll be 27 in 2 weeks. not much has changed for me and my friends since high school we are all roughly the same age living together and partying and random hook ups. i dont see much of a problem with that. i dont think i want kids and the idea of buying a house or finding a place to live the rest of my life scares the crap out of me. i’ve made poor choices but i’ve always been happy, some of us just aren’t cut out to be parents.

the problem is recently i’ve been thinking a lot. i’ve never had a girlfriend that i really like and care about. until this summer. i don’t usually date girls more than 5 years younger than me but this summer i took a chance on an 18 year old and me here at 26…i’m a perv i know…anyway, we worked together at a restaurant, so we were together almost 24/7. she was fun and liked to go out, she wasn’t clingy or desperate, she was kind of mean actually, she didn’t put up with any bull crap either, her parents loved me, and i would come over all the time and eat dinner with them and for the first time in my life i enjoyed being with my girlfriend and getting to know her and her family. i let my ego get in the way a lot i would be mean and distant sometimes but she was the same way a lot of the time. regardless we got a long very well.

well she left for college in August, i remember the day after she left i was going to work and i had this horrible empty feeling inside cuz i knew she wasnt gonna be there anymore. i actually missed her like crazy. i started texting her all the time and being insanely jealous of college boys mainly cuz they were closer to her age and partying with her. she got tired of me being clingy and the fact i was 120 miles away and said we should break up, she had actually met someone there. i was heartbroken for the first time ever…and it sucked but i got myself through it, laughing at myself mostly for being an idiot who thought he loved an 18 year old. BUT…she came home this weekend and we hung out, had a great time, i realized i missed having her around, and as i was saying my goodbyes these stupid tears came flowing out and i didnt even realize i was gonna cry, and i DONT cry for any reason, she asked if i was crying i started laughing and said yeah im an idiot. she just said everything would be fine but we need to do our own separate things. she said our ages weren’t the problem it was my attitude toward the situation, being jealous and not trusting her, and me being so far away.

it all hit me how much older i was than her and that maybe if i had gotten married and stayed in college when i was her age none of this would’ve happened. i do feel stupid for being in love with an 18 year old and the fact she’s totally kicking my *** here, payback i guess for being such a selfish jerk all these years, what goes around comes around i guess. i still dont care for family and that sort of thing but i usually stay in my age group. i just want all these emotions to stop, so i can go back to being a selfish aimless moron with no goals…except to finish school so im not still working at a restaurant when im 40 and also a better job would mean more money to spend, lol.

what’s wrong with me? why do i suddenly feel guilty for not having anything, when that’s what i wanted? why can’t i stop thinking about this stupid 18 year old girl? is any of this normal at all?


I cannnot read this big story to answer.Can you please shorten up your answer PLz.
chiku | Nov 17, 2009


You fell in love and she broke your heart. It does not "just go away" unfortunately. My friend had a very similar situation, except his gf went and got pregnant by another man because he didn’t want to settle! Your ex girlfriend is young and she likes to party too. She isn’t ready to settle down yet. There are probably a ton of guys where she goes to school. I don’t know your girlfriend, but let me tell you 18 year olds are very impressionable. While she was away, she found someone else to keep her company. Young girls tend to string guys along….especially when they know the guy truly loves them. When she goes back to school, she will probably have a new boyfriend. If you want to get over this girl, you need to stop hanging out with her when she comes back to town. Make yourself unavailable. Find other people to hang out with even if you don’t want to at first. If it was meant to be, in 5 years when she is more mature, she will still be there. Good Luck, and don’t settle for less than what you are worth.

PS. When your ready, you will want a house a family and what not…..or you may never want one. Don’t feel abnormal just because you don’t want a house with a white picket fence and 2.5 children!
IT IS WHAT IT IS!!! | Nov 17, 2009


Nothing is wrong with you at all….You are acting very normal. You are finally maturing and realizing there is more to life than partying and working in a restaurant and you want more than that. You are for the first time looking at the future not just the present. As for the girl….regardless of her age it was your first true love and everyone gets upset when they lose their first love.
Bears Mom | Nov 17, 2009


Well, you didn’t want a family, house, etc. That doesn’t mean you aren’t going to stumble across a girl once in a while you can fall in love with. You two are at different places in your development and it just wasn’t meant to be.

If you keep dating, you will find someone else that you like as much or more, she won’t move 120 miles away and you’ll have similar priorities.

The reason you feel this remorse is because you finally found someone whom you had a real connection with. It will happen again, just next time…don’t take it for granted – now you know how precious a chance meeting like that can be.
GerberaChic | Nov 17, 2009


It sort of seems like the greatest reason you like this girl is that somewhere in your mind you know what you have with her is a bit wrong (I’m not saying it is, just saying that YOU might think it’s wrong), and so you want her more than you would any other girl your age. Because dating girls your age is not necessarily considered wrong, you don’t feel like you have any problems with them and so you don’t appreciate them as much. You appreciate things more when they’re harder to obtain and keep.

As for the whole life-plan thing, getting what you want all the time is not good. Think of it this way; you’re babysitting a kid and you’re chopping an apple for him to eat. The kid sees you using a knife and he wants to use it too, would you give him the knife? The most reasonable answer would be no, as the kid might hurt himself and you would have to deal with the consequences. Now, always getting what you want might make you happy for a while, but eventually all those things might come back and bite you in the butt (like you said, what goes around comes around; it’s not always the bad things that make you pay, though) because most desires turn out to be whims.

It’s perfectly normal, all this ordeal. It happens to the best of people, what makes everyone different is how we deal with things. You finally found someone you truly care about and you actually admitted it– congratulations, your mind is becoming more mature. It’s natural to be confused when you go through new things, but don’t worry, everything will work out in the end, after all, you’ve had almost 27 years of experience, you might already know what’s going to happen.
Mango | Nov 17, 2009


You make it sound like you’re 45 and she’s 18. I think it could work out if she moved back but by the time she graduates college you both will have moved on. It sounds like she’s more focused on the future than you are, if you really want her you need to show her you are planning for the future. Retirement comes around very quick, you need to start thinking ahead.
Bibigirl | Nov 17, 2009


Your ages sound like they are switched. She sounds 26, and you sound 18.

Logistically, it is silly to continue the relationship, and socially restricting at her age where she should be figuring things out. She knows that. Maybe when she gets out and you are 30, you can start up something again. But, sorry to say, probably not. You need to find someone your own age.

It just seems like you fell in love with the first girl that paid attention to you for more than a one night stand. That is why you cannot stop thinking about her. It is a common infection, falling in love with the first girl you really date.

This is entirely normal, the only thing not normal is how old you are compared to her.

Girls your own age are much more appealing if you ask me, but maybe you are romantically underdeveloped, which it sounds like, making her a better overall match. Either way, try to find someone else. Because, she is.
Bent Snowman | Nov 17, 2009

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